Saturday, June 9, 2012

The Power of Maturity


The late Benazir Bhutto
There's something about turning 50 or being close to it that allows you to benefit from your hard-won experience. This is a time when our life lessons come home.

Jane Fonda
I remember when I was in my 20s and 30s thinking I had everything figured out. But now at almost 60? No comparison. In our younger years, we're just gathering data. Then at some point our vision clears, and we're able to assimilate it. Dr. Christiane Northrup would say that it's because of our changing levels of hormones.
Olympia Snowe

She believes that these hormones were responsible for keeping us complacent and placid during the years that we're fertile. Otherwise, we might go crazy and do something bad to our babies or our mate. Then at a certain point your reproductive ability diminishes and the fog clears (again, this is according to her hypothesis).

Hillary Clinton
The woman now has new perspective, and along with it, a new impatience. I selected the pictures of these famous women because they have that face - they know what I'm talking about. I'm sure you or your friends have looked around at the world, even if only your little slice of it, and suddenly felt unable to tolerate the same old, same old. Did you know the divorce rate is highest among women around age 50 - and it's the women who are instigating them? According to one study, a primary reason for breaking up a long time union is a desire to move to a new city, state, or country, but the husband is unwilling to go.
Sonia Sotomayor

At this time of life, women are freer, no longer responsible for dependent children (at least, theoretically.) At this point we have the strength to handle reality. I recently heard of a middle-aged woman finally giving up and accepting that her birth mother still didn't want her. This heartbreaking truth was probably evident all along, but it took some time for the adoptive daughter to realize and accept it. I suspect she would not have been able to handle it had she been younger and this is why the realization is now hitting her. And life will go on.

Whoopi Goldberg
I've mentioned a million times that I live in a 55+ community. I frequently hear people saying "I'm not going to put up with that anymore." Or, "I'm too old to take that nonsense." As much as I think there's a danger that we might use our age as an excuse to disengage, I really think you do reach a point in life where you are able to gather all of the data that you've collected, look at it with a mature eye, draw conclusions, and then act.

This is empowerment.

This is the time for cutting loose, and letting go, and standing up for ourselves, regardless of the price we might have to pay. The strength and power of this demographic – of us – has never been measured, but you know I'm right. You feel it, don't you? The question is, how are you going to use it?

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